Plenty of weddings these days are casual instead of formal affairs and striving for a unique theme. There’s a greater desire to reflect the couple’s personality, incorporating their interests and tastes rather than those of the parent’s. In the past parents had a strong influence on the couple as they were probably paying for the wedding. Old style traditions were strictly adhered to for their sake but now you see more of a party atmosphere. The focus of the celebration is the couple’s union and the formal procedures are often dreamed up by the couple with bits taken from everywhere.I loved hearing from our Publisher at Bride that she had just attended a pagan wedding. According to a recent news article there’s quite an interest in the whole pagan thing. Not that I am any expert, but the witchcraft in all those TV shows – Charmed, Buffy as well as Harry Potter has apparently sparked an interest in these ancient spiritual ways. Of course the gown at the pagan wedding wasn’t white (rust red actually) and the ceremony unusual – outside in nature was very earthy and a brilliantly fresh experience for the guests. Maybe it sounds silly to some but I love the idea of these unique weddings – especially from a fashion and style point of view. I think this also goes for culturally influenced weddings such as 
the Indian, Chinese, European or Middle Eastern influences on gowns and ceremonies. This can be really beautiful especially for those couples combining the customs and styles from two different cultures if they inter-marry and adding a contemporary flavour. There is a lot to learn from other parts of the world and other religions - for instance the gorgeous riot of colours from the east – the reds & oranges, the many outfits for ceremony, reception, going away etc. plus some of the profound rituals performed.
With influences from whatever is important to you – whether it be spiritual or cultural - the wedding gown and theme for the day is likely to be truly remarkable and stunning.
What I am a fan of is really standing out from the crowd and the more the day melds old traditions, new inspirations & couples favourite things the better.
Of course at the heart of this is the frock!! Thought should be given to the gown expressing 
individuality and flair. I believe that clothes are creative so if you are a bride-to-be it’s a perfect time to deshatign a spectacularly special outfit incorporating anything meaningful to you. Making that departure from the fashion flock is a sure way to look distinctive and exceptional!
Star gossip -apparently Ben Lee (musician) is getting married in India due to his spiritual beliefs and there will be elephants – that’s what I’m talking about - how brilliant!!
Kirstie
